One question though wouldn't other servers pick my server up as a spam server if I send mail to them then??
To use your server as spam server the spammer needs to be able to relay mail through it. Remember that eBox only relays mail when:
a) mail is sent from an address that belongs to a object that has an 'allow relay' policy
b) authorization is enabled and a valid user/password it supplied.
So as long that the spammer haven't access either to a IP from an authorized object or to one of your user's password they couldnt use it to relay mail.