It would help, though, even just as an educational exercise, if someone had said up front, "It is perfectly normal for a Linux system to maintain a small amount of swap usage. This is only a problem when swap sizes are large and/or growing."
"How much physical memory do I need in my Zentyal server?" is a completely fair question that is complicated a little by the behavior we see. If we can't answer that question by simply watching how RAM is used, we wonder about how best to answer it. Educators call those teachable moments, and whether there is a problem or not (and I've already said I don't think we have a real problem), it would be nice to have a simple explanation of what we actually are seeing--which has nothing to do with Windows, as far as I can tell. Maybe then we would have a clear idea of how to know if physical memory needs increasing or not.