Sorry for late reply all.
@jbahillo - tried, and unable to find which rule was blocking.
So I found the file that needs to be edited to change default rules, which is Iptables.pm. Did a quick lesson on Perl programming just to understand it a little more (Have prev programming experience). Removed the drop all rules and changed default policy to accept. Restarted firewall, now my firewall is open.. SUCCESS! Try RDP, works!
Add rules to allow services/ip's I need per previous installation, then add a LAST/FINAL rule to DENY ALL. SUCCESS blocks everything from coming in and going out that I don't allow.
Working well. Got my friend to try a few things remotely. So far so good. Unable to access.
I will be adding another NIC later on and changing back to orig Iptables.pm. Just needed it to work now. But in essence I am doing the same thing, just in reverse. Allowing what I want then Denying all, rather than Denying all and allowing what I want. I know what you are all saying, but it is working well at the moment and will try recommended config at a later time.
Also, on single nic config, my router only forwards ports that we are using, ie port 80, 22 etc to zentyal box. Everything else won't get through.