Duane,
Since we all have experienced unanswered questions here in the community forums, no one is unsympathetic. Yet moderators are community members responsible for the conduct on the forums, not the quality of service provided by the community. Ordinarily we cannot generate more staff response than any other member. Even our own topics don't automatically enjoy more staff attention than any other community member's topics. We are very ordinary people here, regardless of any misleading impression (in my view) the board's karma feature provides.
The practical result of Zentyal's business model is that the open source-oriented community interested in Zentyal's progress is responsible for these forums. They are not unattended, though community skills will, naturally, be uneven. I grant that that's not a perfect system, but open source projects only rarely (in my experience) have sufficiently vibrant communities to overcome the system's deficiencies. Zentyal's customers don't always equate to active community members, in other words.
This "two worlds" aspect of Zentyal is best seen by comparing zentyal.org and zentyal.com. While Zentyal is firmly an open source project, as a product it is a commercial offering. That may create unwelcome side effects on the .org side of things, and it is up to open source advocates to fill any gap. The current benefit to us on the .org side is the free availability of a fully functional Zentyal. In return, as you noted, Zentyal as a commercial offering may benefit from our experience and feedback in terms of bug reports and in terms of wider and more diverse real world implementation.
Again, having been been "neglected" here myself more than once over the years I'm not unsympathetic. And I'm not asking you to simply accept that this is the way things are, even though this is the way things are, more or less, depending on how close to the reality my comments have gotten. My practical suggestion is that if you want to pursue the conversation with people who can make an operational difference, watch the announcements forum for the next community council meeting and feel free to accept the invitation to attend, with your observations in hand. Thoughtful feedback and criticism, like yours, are welcome there, as far as I know.
In the meantime, I encourage you to report anything you think might be a bug or an undesirable behavior. As Christian noted, that's not a formal rule, so maybe as moderators we do need to suggest it more often--though as you've noted it's not a preferred method of getting questions answered, and people predictably are reluctant to file a bug report when they're not sure. i know I am.
In any case, I do hope you can find useful answers to your original good questions.