Thank you everyone for your support on this, I just had time to finish it. found the problem to be with the fire wall initially, the fire wall was blocking the port by default. Once I fixed that issue I also learned that the VPN can not be in the same sub net that you are in, IE: If you are 192.168.1.X and your VPN is 192.168.1.X then it will not work properly. For this reason i chose my internal network to be 192.168.198.X, I figured that there are very few people on that sub net if any at all. Any way I have it up now and its working just fine, in fact I am using it as we speak to get files from my server.